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| The Danger of Marriage |
It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. – Friedrich Nietzsche
Your marriage is a time bomb. It is ticking away. Identify the following explosive signs and defuse them as soon as possible:
- Rumors: There is no doubt that you trust each other, but in a marriage, it is necessary to clarify the situation as soon as possible whenever a rumor surfaces. When you think it is a small matter and let it simmer, you allow the time bomb to activate.
- A boring life: It is essential to bring excitement into the marriage. Once in a while have fun together to get away from the daily monotonous life. Living every day the same way will allow attraction beyond your marriage to interfere with your peaceful life. Have enjoyment and laughter every now and then to brighten your marriage.
- Serious illnesses: Look after your health well. You cannot guarantee your partner to stay with you and look after you when you are seriously ill for a prolonged period.
- Bad habits: Your bad habits can be detrimental to your marriage. When you indulge in such bad habits like gambling and womanizing, your marriage will end sooner or later.
- Different thinking: Before you got married you treated the differences in character, cultural and educational backgrounds as small issues. Now that you are living together the differences in looking at things are glaring and irritating to such an extent that it is unbearable.
- Poverty: How long do you think your partner can withstand and endure the suffering with you when you cannot lead a normal life because of financial difficulties? Very soon your spouse will file for a divorce.
- Your physical appearance: Do you look after yourself to stay attractive or you allow your body to develop in the wrong place after marriage? Get your partner interested in you and not a third party.
- Children: Children may not be a problem in a normal marriage. However, when a marriage does not work out the custody of the children is a major issue and a bitter tussle.
- Work: Your job can interfere with your marriage, especially when you are a workaholic. You take your partner for granted and ignore her.
- Living separately: He may get a promotion and a transfer out of town. How sure for both of you that you can discipline yourselves not to involve in an affair after living separately for a long period of time?
No experts can disconnect the ticking time bomb. You have to help yourself to extinguish the fuse.
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