What are the most satisfying things to do in life? I can think of the following
things that can contribute greatly to your happiness in life:
1. Achieving your dreams: The most thrilling thing in life is to achieve your long-term goals. It is your vision and passion. You will face many challenges in life It is not easy but you are determined to pursue your objectives. As an example, I want to be a better blogger. I know it is an uphill task. I am passionate about it and I will go for it though it may take me many more years.
2. Financial freedom: This is another meaningful long- ranch goal. It means you are able to realize your financial objectives such as owning your own house and having sufficient fund for retirement and children education.
3. In the pink of health: How well you live in life depends on how fit you are.
Life is only worth living when you have the energy and drive to go after your dreams. Exercise daily for health and fitness.
4. Simple random acts of kindness: This is the right way to live. Be patient while you are driving and give way to those who want to overtake you. Stop and let the pedestrians cross the road. Greet people with a smile and give praises and pay compliments generously. Say please and thank you. These kind gestures don’t cost you a cent, but they mean a lot to other people.
5. Family: Caring and rearing children are never easy. Maintain harmony at home is also a challenge. Just live one day at a time and don’t worry about the future. Look at life positively in all circumstances.
6. Traveling: Seeing places, learning the way of life of the people and their culture, broadening your horizon, learning new things and looking at life from a different perspective are some of the wonderful things you get when you visit other places
7. Learning: Enlarging your intellectual capacity and learning new insights and keeping your mind active and stimulated are the advantages of continuous learning. Learning new things is also a lifelong process.
8. Reading: Reading motivates, captivates, uplifts, refreshes, excites, moves and encourages you in life. Make it a habit at least to read a page a day.
9. Connecting: It is about relationships and interdependence among people who are closely linked to you. The support and the bond promote spiritual well-being in you. Keep in touch with those you care and those who care for you
10. Giving and contributing: Share your experience, know-how and knowledge with others. Give to the needy and donate to worthy causes.
These are the things you continue to do day after day. These are the things that give you meaning in life.
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Friday, July 16, 2010
Thursday, July 15, 2010
10 Ingredients of a Personal Success System
A system is an organized set of ideas to get something done. Likewise, a personal success system consists of many component parts woven together to make it workable and achievable. Here are the 10 most important parts of your success system:
1. Written goals: It is a road map to direct you to the right place to go. You focus your energy, enthusiasm, and attention on your goals. Let your interests and passion be your guide to set your goals
2. Creative: It is like creating your own brand. Be unique and original in your approach in everything you do. Impress others by doing things your special way
3. Well-informed: Always update yourself by reading and doing research on the latest information. Be willing to renew your skills by learning the latest know-how and new ways of doing things
4. Connection: Be connected and be in touch often with those sharing similar interests with you. Tap into their resources and see how their ideas can be transformed to suit your own needs.
5. Self-confident: Be optimistic about what you do. Don’t be discouraged by defeats and failures along the way. These are great learning experiences to make you a wiser person.
6. Be motivated and inspired: Life is full of setbacks and problems. The only way to prevent your spirits from being dampened is to stay motivated and inspired. Always look at your written goals and see the progress you have made. Be mindful of the tasks ahead and avoid deviation from the right direction
7. Personal care: It is about taking care of your health so that you are always in top form and is able to perform your best under stress
8. Emotionally intelligent: Knowing your own emotions is to prevent yourself from doing the wrong things or saying the wrong words at the wrong time. Knowing the emotions of others means knowing the right time to approach them and getting things done.
9. Be happy: Happy people are more likely to be successful than those who are not. The fact is that your pleasant personality attracts the attention of others because you are cheerful and meet others with a smile. You create a positive self-image that people assess you favorably.
10. Take action: You may have all the other parts in working order and you won’t take action, nothing is going to happen. The most important thing is to act promptly. Strike while the iron is hot, do not dilly- dally or you will miss a golden opportunity to take your success to the next level. Taking action means working hard and working smart on those things that are important in your life.
When the system is in working order, you will accomplish what you want to achieve in life.
1. Written goals: It is a road map to direct you to the right place to go. You focus your energy, enthusiasm, and attention on your goals. Let your interests and passion be your guide to set your goals
2. Creative: It is like creating your own brand. Be unique and original in your approach in everything you do. Impress others by doing things your special way
3. Well-informed: Always update yourself by reading and doing research on the latest information. Be willing to renew your skills by learning the latest know-how and new ways of doing things
4. Connection: Be connected and be in touch often with those sharing similar interests with you. Tap into their resources and see how their ideas can be transformed to suit your own needs.
5. Self-confident: Be optimistic about what you do. Don’t be discouraged by defeats and failures along the way. These are great learning experiences to make you a wiser person.
6. Be motivated and inspired: Life is full of setbacks and problems. The only way to prevent your spirits from being dampened is to stay motivated and inspired. Always look at your written goals and see the progress you have made. Be mindful of the tasks ahead and avoid deviation from the right direction
7. Personal care: It is about taking care of your health so that you are always in top form and is able to perform your best under stress
8. Emotionally intelligent: Knowing your own emotions is to prevent yourself from doing the wrong things or saying the wrong words at the wrong time. Knowing the emotions of others means knowing the right time to approach them and getting things done.
9. Be happy: Happy people are more likely to be successful than those who are not. The fact is that your pleasant personality attracts the attention of others because you are cheerful and meet others with a smile. You create a positive self-image that people assess you favorably.
10. Take action: You may have all the other parts in working order and you won’t take action, nothing is going to happen. The most important thing is to act promptly. Strike while the iron is hot, do not dilly- dally or you will miss a golden opportunity to take your success to the next level. Taking action means working hard and working smart on those things that are important in your life.
When the system is in working order, you will accomplish what you want to achieve in life.
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Change and be one of the Happy People (Third of a three-part Happy People series)
You can be one of the happy people too. All you need to do is to change yourself positively. Here are the three areas you can change and transform yourself to be a happy person
Change your life
• Follow your dreams and passion
• Be interested to read and learn
• Be connected with people you care
• Be delighted with people who care for you
• Do what you are interested to do
• Move your body
• Be generous with praise and compliment
• Exercise your brain every day
• Donate and contribute to worthy causes
• Smile
• Sleep well
• Walk more
• Live in the moment
• Enjoy your meals especially your breakfast
• Do random acts of kindness
• Spend quality time with your family
• Enjoy and make the best out of what you have in life
• Do what matters most to you
• Go slow
• Marvel the wonders of nature
Change your thoughts
• Forget the past
• Don’t worry about the future
• Forget about your age
• Look at the bright side of life
• Know that your conscience is clear
• Be young at heart
• Be contented
• Be confident
• Be appreciative
• Think positively
• Be grateful and thankful
• Don’t dwell on the problem, find a solution
• Start a new day cheerfully
• Just be happy
• Feel good about yourself
• Be responsible for your own life, you are in control. Don’t blame others
Change the way you work
• Be willing to learn new things and make changes for the better
• Enjoy working
• Take breaks between tasks
• Do one task at a time
• Be focus on the task at hand
• Be trusted
• Be valued
• Be creative
• Plan ahead
• Get the most important things done every day
• Be empathetic
• Dress smartly
• Get out of your comfort zone
• Be alert and energetic
What are the other things that can promote happiness? Please share your thoughts here.
Change your life
• Follow your dreams and passion
• Be interested to read and learn
• Be connected with people you care
• Be delighted with people who care for you
• Do what you are interested to do
• Move your body
• Be generous with praise and compliment
• Exercise your brain every day
• Donate and contribute to worthy causes
• Smile
• Sleep well
• Walk more
• Live in the moment
• Enjoy your meals especially your breakfast
• Do random acts of kindness
• Spend quality time with your family
• Enjoy and make the best out of what you have in life
• Do what matters most to you
• Go slow
• Marvel the wonders of nature
Change your thoughts
• Forget the past
• Don’t worry about the future
• Forget about your age
• Look at the bright side of life
• Know that your conscience is clear
• Be young at heart
• Be contented
• Be confident
• Be appreciative
• Think positively
• Be grateful and thankful
• Don’t dwell on the problem, find a solution
• Start a new day cheerfully
• Just be happy
• Feel good about yourself
• Be responsible for your own life, you are in control. Don’t blame others
Change the way you work
• Be willing to learn new things and make changes for the better
• Enjoy working
• Take breaks between tasks
• Do one task at a time
• Be focus on the task at hand
• Be trusted
• Be valued
• Be creative
• Plan ahead
• Get the most important things done every day
• Be empathetic
• Dress smartly
• Get out of your comfort zone
• Be alert and energetic
What are the other things that can promote happiness? Please share your thoughts here.
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Getting Things Done – 10 Advantages of Happy People (Second of a three-part series in Happy People)
Getting things done means getting yourself organized for a day’s work by following the to-do list which you have prepared the day before. However, the execution of the tasks separates happy people from those who are less happy at work. Happy people do a better job than those who are not for the following reasons:
1. Creative: A free and uncluttered mind is the prerequisite to creativity. Happy people feel good about themselves and they are always looking for better ways of doing things. .Their mind is on the job and they are thinking about how they can work more efficiently.
2. Focus: They are able to concentrate and bring themselves into a state of flow while doing their work. There is nothing to disturb their peace of mind
3. Receptive to new ideas: They are open-minded, curious, and are willing to learn new things. In this way, they are able to accept new ideas and make changes to get things done more efficiently and effectively
4. Likable: Others are more attracted to people who are happy and cheerful. Happy people make those around them happy too. It is a conducive environment to get things done smoothly.
5. In the mood: They are always in a positive mood to take prompt action and go to work right away.
6. Satisfied: Happy people are upbeat about their own situation, they are contented. The happiness created in other areas of their life brings more happiness to their workplace. Their cheerful disposition promotes productivity
7. Positive outlook: They are not disturbed by problems at work. They accept them as part of their routine and they are resourceful to think of ways to resolve the issues.
8. Work with a more relaxed mind: Happy people don’t work under stress. They are cool, calm, and collected at work and they have more energy, more alert, and make fewer mistakes.
9. Happy in what they do: They are engaged and passionate to do what is expected of them. They do a thorough job the first time and every time.
10. Motivated and inspired: As happy people have achieved more success than those who are not, they are motivated to perform better than before at work.
The most important thing in life is to find happiness at work. Do something that you are interested in and passionately about. A happy worker distinguishes himself as a better worker from someone who produces mediocre work.
Monday, July 12, 2010
10 Delightful Things about Happy People (First of a three-part series in Happy People)
If you use Google to do a search for ‘happy” you get about 625 million results. There are more than 100 million blogs on the Net. It means the word is searched six times more than each blog in the blogosphere. We all want to be happy and every one of us is looking for happiness. There are wonderful things to be derived from a happy feeling. Here are the top ten things that are happening to happy people:
- Success: According to happiness expert, Sonja Lyubomirsky, happy people are more successful in life than those who are less happy in terms of career, family, relationships, work performance, and income. They are always in a positive mood to achieve what they have aimed for in life.
- Well-being: Happiness promotes goodness physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. There is a good feeling lingering in the air among them. Furthermore, robust health, in turn, generates more pleasant feelings in them.
- Likable and sociable: People are naturally inclined to approach those who are cheerful and friendly. Happy people are glad to meet others. They are well-connected with friends and relatives and they enjoy great support from them.
- Attract good luck: Happy people attract the attention of others because they are cheerful and greet people with a smile. They feel good from the inside out and they project an image of self-confidence.
- Optimistic: Happy peoples have a positive perception of themselves and they have a positive outlook in life. They have high expectations and high hope about the future.
- Making others happy: Happiness is infectious. When you are happy you make others happy too.
- Satisfied at work: Happy people are excited about their work. They are engaged and passionate to do their best. As they have experienced happiness and success they will look for new goals to work on energetically.
- Peaceful and harmonious home life: Happy people bring happiness to their home life. Family members are influenced positively by a smiling face to greet them at the door.
- More positive emotions: Happy people vibrate more positive emotions such as assurance, hopefulness, excitement, contentment, friendliness, satisfaction, and kindness. They live in the moment and they enjoy what they have got out of life.
- Positive response to problems in life: With a positive mindset they view problems like challenges to them. Instead of dwelling on a problem, they will find very creative and resourceful ways to overcome it
Happiness is something you don’t have to look for it, earn it, or buy it. It is free and it is a feeling from within. All you need to do is to make a simple decision to be happy. Can you make up your mind to be happy and stay happy?
Saturday, July 10, 2010
10 Top Tips to stay Motivated on The Job
Working life is not always smooth sailing. It has its ups and downs. The most important thing is that you must stay motivated so that you can weather the storm at work and still do your best. Here are the top ten tips to be in high spirits at work:
- Do work that you are interested in: If you do not enjoy doing your work, most likely you can’t be engaged, committed, and be focused on the job. It is like a round peg in a square hole. Do work that you are passionate about so that you can do well.
- Explore new ways of doing things: Be creative and resourceful to find new ways of doing things so that you can be more efficient and effective. When you can do a better job, you are definitely motivated.
- Keep learning: Be keen and curious to look for new things to learn. The more you know the more resources are available to you to solve problems at work.
- Go slow: Rushing about is the sure way of getting stress and discouraged. Avoid pressure by following your to-do list and take breaks between tasks.
- Celebrate daily accomplishment: At the end of each day remember to review things that you have completed according to your to-do list. Congratulate your effectiveness in getting things done so that you keep yourself inspired.
- A conducive working environment: Avoid clutter in the workplace and do not work in a place where there are a lot of people moving around. Furthermore, a clean and tidy working area promotes calmness and peace of mind
- A positive mental attitude: Look at things on the bright side and do not allow a setback to dampen your enthusiasm at work Be confident and maintain high self-esteem,
- Positive emotions: Are you emotionally intelligent? You must be able to know your emotions in order to avoid the expression of negative emotions like anger, resentment, and hatred. Get to know the emotions of other people so that you can approach them when they are in the right frame of mind. In this way, you get things done smoothly through others.
- What else excites you: A happy home life and the pursuit of personal interests can make a positive impact on your job. When you are happy about other things in life, it will bring cheerfulness and satisfaction into your working life.
- Look after your health: When you are unfit, you don’t have the drive and energy to work. You can’t be motivated when you are feeling down and out. Exercise every day to be in top form, alert, and feel good about yourself.
You spend one-third of daily life at work, it is important that you are happy and motivated at work for many more years to come.
Friday, July 9, 2010
10 Ways to Save Time

The most important thing in life is to spend your time on things that are important and meaningful to you. Such things are like doing tasks relating to your long ranch goals, getting involved in your interests and passion, and spending quality time with your family. In order to do less and get more out of what you want in life, you have to avoid wasting time doing things that are non-essential and small stuff. Here are the top ten ways to save time:
1. Television: You change your life forever on the day you stop watching TV. The time you spend on gluing to the tube can be used to do so many wonderful and productive things in life ( Productive Things You Can Do at Home in the evening when you Stop Watching TV ). The fact is that doing anything else is better than watching TV.
2. Mobile phone: Actually the basic function of the telephone is to communicate important messages. Now, with the invention of the mobile phone, it is used to send text messages on trivial issues just to pass the time. Worse still, it is used to browse the Net for the sake of browsing.
3. Internet: Internet is a useful tool when it is used correctly to look for information or doing things relating to your job. Don’t do emailing or chatting for no purposes at all. Surfing the Net is another great sin.
4. Time stealers: Avoid getting into a situation to allow someone to bump into you and chat endlessly just to take away your valuable time. Send him or her to the door politely. You have better things to do in life and time is short.
5. Newspapers: If you must read the papers all you need is about five minutes to scan the headlines. A headline tells the whole story in a nutshell. I read as fast as I can just to look for ideas for my articles and nothing else. Newspapers carry all the sensational news that dampens your spirits and discourages you to start a new day right.
6. Multitasking: Don’t do so many things at the same time in order to save time, it is counterproductive. You work under stress and you are prone to mistakes and you can’t concentrate. Focus on one task at a time to do a job right the first time.
7. Not prepared: Not getting ready the material to do your job is courting for trouble. You will start hunting high and low for the tools and other necessary items. It is time-wasting and frustrating.
8. Do not plan ahead: It is yet another way to waste time by not planning ahead. You could waste precious time doing the wrong things which are not important.
9. A late starter: Time is more than wasted when you start a new day late. You will be rushing about to get things done badly. You miss deadlines and you get interrupted by people and phone calls. It is a mess. Start a new day early.
10. Aimless living: This is truly a disaster in living a meaningful life. Don’t drift around aimlessly in life. It is more than a waste of time. It is a drain of energy and resources. Set goals and follow your dreams.
Actually, when you look at the list, these are things to avoid so that you don’t waste time. You will gain more time at your disposal. The rule is to spend more time on your goals and objectives and avoid doing things that have no impact on your life.
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