My formula for living is quite
simple. I get up in the morning and I go to bed at night. In between, I occupy
myself as best I can. ~Cary Grant
Instead of wishing and thinking, you can take action
to get what you want in life and be happy. These are the effective ways to do
and shape a positive outcome of the future:
1. What
do you always tell yourself: You are what you think. Are you thinking
positively or negatively? A positive
thinking attitude generates energy, boosts confidence and you act
enthusiastically. Thinking good is feeling good about yourself. Do not allow
negative thoughts to discourage you and dampen your spirits.
Your life is what your thoughts make
it. ~ Marcus Aurelius
2. Live
the life of your dreams: To live life effectively is to follow your dreams and
do the things you want to do. The first thing is to find out what you want to
do in life. It is your goal. Set challenging goals that are achievable. Plan
ahead and work your plan one step at a time. This is the way to achieve your
goals and realize your dreams
3. Life
is a journey: There is no destination in life. It only ends when your life
ends. The most important thing is to enjoy every moment of your life in what
you do every day. Your goals give you purpose and meaning in life. There is
always something to look forward to and something fulfilling to do every day.
4. Manage
time effectively: The most important thing is to live a balanced life. There is
a time for you to work hard and there is also a time for you to spend quality
time at home with family members. To go to the extreme in one area such as always
working late and on weekends is to court troubles.
5. Go
slow: Do not hurry by in life, but take your time to appreciate what you do
every day. When you eat, chew your food well. When you drive, slow down. When
you are having fun, loosen up and be totally relaxed. Be mindful of what you do
and enjoy the process of doing it.
6. Seek
improvement: There will be no improvement when you do things the same way over
and over again. Try and adopt new ways to get things done and make a
difference.
7. Be
grateful: An important attitude in life is to show gratitude and appreciation.
Every day when you wake up be thankful to God that you are alive and given a
new day to do all the wonderful things that you have planned to do. Be thankful
for what you are and what you have. The way to do it is to count your blessings
instead of your troubles.
8. Be
persistent: Do not be discouraged by setbacks and problems in life, stay focus on your goals and deal with problems positively. Each battle along the
way that you have won is a boost to your resourcefulness and creativity.
9. Be
healthy and fit: The most important thing you must do in order to live life
happily and effectively is to maintain your energy, stamina, and alertness. To do
that, you will have to exercise every day and follow a nutritious diet. Having
sufficient sleep and drinking enough water throughout the day are basic and
essential daily healthy habits. Avoid bad habits like smoking and drinking.
10. Be
optimistic: Life may not be a bed of roses, but you can always react to events
with a positive perspective. Look at the bright side of things, do the best you
can, and hope for the best. You stay happy when you do what you can and leave
the rest to God.
11. Be
self-sufficient: Do you know that one of the factors that you can’t live life
effectively because you do not have peace of mind? The reason is that you don’t
live within your means. You live on credit to get what you want in life and
build up debts that you cannot manage. Learn to appreciate and enjoy what you
have. A small house is just as homely as a big house as long as you are happy
and contented. A normal bed is just as comfortable as a King Koil bed, the
difference is your attitude.
12. Be
connected: An effective life is a connected life. You are closely connected
with family members, friends and relatives. You get support from them as much
as you have supported them. Stay connected or you will be a lonely and unhappy
soul.
13. Do
one thing at a time: Try not to cram too much to do in a day. A short to-do- list is an effective way to get the most important things done in a day. Fewer tasks mean you will be able to do one
thing at a time effectively without feeling overwhelmed.
14. Express
kindness and appreciation: Say thank you to people who serve you. Smile and
greet people you meet. These small gestures will brighten up the day in other
people’s life. Do random acts of kindness to make others and yourself happy.
15. Be
responsible and accountable: You are responsible for your own life. Don’t blame
others when you are not successful. You have to examine yourself closely and
avoid making the same mistakes. Taking pride in what you do is a positive
attitude to be responsible and accountable. You will work with your heart
knowing that your reputation is at stake. Build authority and gain the trust of
others in you.
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