I
wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others
expected of me.
According to
an article, Top five regrets of the dying, "This was the most common regret of
all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly
on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had
not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due
to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few
realise until they no longer have it."
What do you do to avoid not living the life
you want? Find your purpose in life.
Whatever you do, it is your choice; you
are responsible for your own life. Things you decide to do or not do will
influence the outcome of your life. The purpose of living is to be happy. You
decide what is important in your life. You live your life with passion, energy
and health.
This is how I find my life’s purpose. I
start off with my personal mission statement:
As
a blogger I write to inform, educate, guide, inspire and motivate my readers. I
answer the questions of who, what, how, why and when.
I match it with my skills and what I am
interested to do in which I am happy about it.
As soon as you have your personal
mission statement written, you have to answer the following questions:
·
How
often you do things as stated in your personal mission statement? You can’t
change your life overnight. If you are not doing it now you may not be able to
take off later. You have to start doing it now in a small way and build up your
momentum.
·
Is
it what you are good at? You will do what you are capable of doing and you will
be happy and be engrossed in doing things that you enjoy and passionate about.
·
Do
you find happiness and satisfaction in what you want to do?
·
Will
you be consistent in doing it day in and day out?
When you cannot answer these questions
with affirmation, you need to change your personal mission statement. Your
personal mission statement is aligned with you talents, aspirations and values
in life. As an example, you work in the office and you aspire to be a great
chef. Is cooking your hobby? Have you been spending your free time in the
kitchen cooking up some dishes? Do you
learn from others and read a lot about cooking?
Conclusion:
The most important thing to remember is
that if you cannot do great things, you do small things in a great way. You are
in this world to play a role and you act the best you can. When you die people
will remember you for what you have done in a positive light.
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