Are You Responsible for Your Life?

Do you complain, blame others or think of all sorts of excuses to explain your failures in things you wanted to achieve? It is an easy way out and it will not help you in any way.  The fact is that your present position is the outcome of the choices you have made- for good or bad.   Here are 8 ways to be responsible and be successful in life.     

1.        Work for it: Success is hard work. It is doing the right thing every day persistently. You know what to do to get the desired results. Wishing and hoping will not get you anywhere. Be motivated and be responsible and work smart for your success. When you work for it, you will get it.

2.       Be focused:  You can’t complain to others that you are not getting anywhere because you are not focused on. Be specific and set challenging goals. Be passionate and enthusiastic in going after your dreams and concentrate on working towards your goals.  

3.       Personal development: Do you care to learn and acquire more knowledge? You can’t be competent if you do not develop your skills. You stand a better chance to be ahead of others when you want to improve yourself.  

4.       Be creative: When you are not getting your way, don’t blame others.   Learn from successful people and be innovative and try other ways of doing things.

5.       Be resilient: Don’t give up and don’t complain that you don’t have the luck. Take a proactive approach and learn from your mistakes and be willing to listen to constructive criticism. Keep trying until you are successful.  

6.       Avoid negative attitude: Do not allow negative thoughts to dampen your spirits. Decide what is right for you, go ahead and do it wholeheartedly.  

7.       Look after your own well-being:  You are responsible for your own fitness, your financial independence, and your relationships with others. When you care for yourself, you are in control.  

Taking responsibility is making your own decisions and going on in life. When it does not work out just try another new way.  Take charge, go slow, be happy and enjoy the journey.