If you want to envision a happy person’s stance, imagine one
foot rooted in the present with mindful appreciation of what one has – and
another foot reaching toward the future for yet-to-be-uncovered sources of
meaning.
-Kashdan & Biswas-Diener
You will know
how happy you are just by asking yourself how many of the following words are
in your personal dictionary. These 7 words will inspire you to live a
meaningful and rewarding life. You know life is full of ups and downs. When you
embrace these 7 words you will be able to be resilient and sustain your
happiness:
Are
you grateful for who you are and what you have? Do you remember the support and
help that have been given to you? Are you taking things for granted? Do you
feel grateful and express thanks to those who have gone through life with you
in thick and thin? Happiness is a grateful heart.
"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they
are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom." - Marcel Proust
2. Contentment:
Are you contented with your life? Do you find satisfaction in what you do every
day? It is good to set goals and achieve advancement in life, but you must find
fulfillment in your current situation.
“Be content with what you have;
rejoice in the way things are.
When you realize there is nothing lacking,
the whole world belongs to you.” ― Laozi
rejoice in the way things are.
When you realize there is nothing lacking,
the whole world belongs to you.” ― Laozi
3. Kindness:
It is about sensitive to other people’s needs. Are you caring, friendly and generous?
Happiness for others begets more happiness for you. It is also about politeness
and respectful. Say please and thank you
more often. Just do it and you will definitely feel good.
“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest
intention.” ―Kahlil Gibran
4. Forgiveness:
The only fact is that if you don’t forgive it
will only hurt yourself more. When you are thinking of taking revenge your mind
is in turbulence. Perhaps, the
other person is in deep troubles for doing such an unkindly act to you. Find calmness
in forgiveness.
"To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return,
you will receive untold peace and happiness." -
Robert Muller
5. Moment:
Are you interested in what you do? If not, you have not found your passion
yet. When you do, you will immerse in
your work and time will stand still for you.
Are
you still suffering from past pains or worrying about the future? You only live
in the present. Take action and do what you have to do now and there will be no
regret in the future.
Live
and enjoy every moment. Listen to the falling rain and the rushing of the waves
to the shore. Capture the sight of the blooming flowers outside the window.
“Life is not made up of minutes, hours, days,
weeks, months, or years, but of moments. You must experience each one before
you can appreciate it.” ― Sarah Ban Breathnach
6.
Movement: Life is movement. Movement
creates energy. Energy is the force that propels you to greater height. Instead
of watching TV or sitting around, get outside and embrace nature. Walk, jog or
cycle. Movement creates health. You are
young because you move. You feel old because you are inactive. Move every day to
feel fresh and energetic.
Movement is a medicine
for creating change in a person's physical, emotional, and mental states.
- Carol Welch
7.
Appreciation: Appreciation is
looking for the good in somebody or something.
Do
you enjoy your life from day to day? Every day may be the same; it is up to you
to find the little pleasures in it.
Happiness
is a job well done even though it is a daily chore. Things like washing the
dishes and keeping the house clean and tidy are excellent examples.
“Appreciation is a
wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well.”
―Voltaire
―Voltaire
What is your
take? Do you find these 7 words translate into happiness? What words should be
taken away and what other words should be added to be truly happy? Please
share.
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